Peah Speaks #2

Yesterday.....

3.00 p.m
Siva:  (Staring sharp at me) 'Fidza...you look different...'
Me:  'What different..'
Siva: 'I dunno la..(with his Indian-style-shaking-head)...different'
Me:  'It's my scarf'
Siva:  'Everyday ur wearing scarf..but today different..'

20 minutes later..

Siva:   'Fidza...not nice la wearing like this'
Me:  (stunned for 2 seconds..looking at him)...'I like what i wear...and I don't care'...
Siva:  '.not nice..not nice...' ..(still trying to 'attack' me)...

ok..where is this conversation heading towards?..hmm..I received 'ceplosan' from someone with big unmanaged hair, boot cut pants, a very tight long sleeve shirt..err..are we in the 70's...so..no big deal...

This is one example of many unpleasant 'ceplosan' that I had in my life.   But usually I just ignore it.

Tips:

If someone 'ceplos' / laughs at you...

1.  take a deep breath..
2.  sigh a bit..but not too much..(just to release whateva unsatisfied feelings you have at that moment)
3.  find his/her defects and say - 'my goodness...that blouse is hideous..'
4.  look at that 'ceplos'-er...and imagine smacking his/her head with a tennis racket.
5.  just smile and laugh it out...

OR Else...you won't get the satisfaction of experimenting....so..'berangan je la kan'...:)

 ..spanish wrap style..

..I even got laughed once by wearing something like this..

-peah-